How to Host a Seder

Getting everything ready for the BIG NIGHT!

 

A Comprehensive guide for setting up for the Passover meal (Seder).

Welcome to our comprehensive guide on setting up for a Passover Seder! Whether you’re hosting your first Seder or just looking for a refresher, this step-by-step guide will walk you through everything you need to know to create a meaningful and memorable celebration.

STEP 1: Understanding the Basics

Before diving into the setup, it’s essential to understand the significance of the Passover Seder. Passover commemorates the Israelites’ liberation from slavery in ancient Egypt. For those who have come to faith in Yeshua, the parallel is exact! A passover lamb was required so that death could be defeated. The Seder (meaning order) is a ritual meal that follows a specific order outlined in the Haggadah, a guidebook containing prayers, stories, and songs.

STEP 2: Gather Essential Supplies

Before diving into the setup, it’s essential to understand the significance of the Passover Seder. Passover commemorates the Israelites’ liberation from slavery in ancient Egypt. For those who have come to faith in Yeshua, the parallel is exact! A passover lamb was required so that death could be defeated. The Seder (meaning order) is a ritual meal that follows a specific order outlined in the Haggadah, a guidebook containing prayers, stories, and songs.

Seder plate items

Matzo: Unleavened bread symbolises the haste with which the Israelites fled Egypt.

Wine or Grape Juice: Four cups are traditionally consumed during the Seder to symbolize freedom and redemption.

Maror: Bitter herbs, typically horseradish, symbolizing the bitterness of slavery.

Charoset: A sweet mixture of chopped apples, nuts, and wine symbolizing the mortar used by the Israelites in brick-making.

Karpas: Parsley or another green vegetable, representing spring and renewal.

Zeroa: A roasted shank bone symbolizing the Paschal sacrifice.

Beitzah: A roasted egg symbolizing mourning and the cycle of life.

Items and decor

Food for the main meal: If you are hosting, consider inviting the guests to bring an “unleavened” meal along with them.

Tableware: Plates, bowls, cups, and utensils for each guest.

Saltwater and bowls: For dipping the Karpas.

Unleavened Bread Cover: A decorative cloth to wrap around the stack of Matzos, symbolizing the unleavened bread the Israelites ate during their exodus from Egypt and also Yeshua’s burial in the tomb.

Candlesticks and Candles: Lighting candles at the beginning of the Seder symbolizes the start of the holiday and adds warmth to the table.

Pillows: Traditionally, guests recline on pillows during the Seder to symbolize freedom and luxury.

Guidebook: Provide each guest with a guidebook that contains the order of the Seder, prayers, stories, and songs.

Elijah’s Cup: A special cup filled with wine left untouched for the prophet Elijah, who is believed to visit every Seder to herald the arrival of the Messiah.

Decorative Tableware: Use special plates, bowls, and utensils to add elegance to the table setting.

Passover-themed Decorations: Consider incorporating Passover-themed decorations such as flowers, greenery, or symbols of freedom and renewal.

Children’s Activities: Provide Passover-themed coloring pages, puzzles, or activities to keep children engaged during the Seder. We have created an activity booklet especially for children called, “Exodus Explorers”. If you would like to access it, visit: www.passover.org.au/kids

Afikoman Bag: A decorative bag or pouch to hold the Afikoman, a piece of Matzo hidden during the Seder for children to find and redeem for a prize.

Wine Decanter: Pouring wine from a decorative decanter adds a touch of elegance to the ceremony.

Traditional Music: Play traditional Passover songs or music in the background to enhance the festive atmosphere.

Virtual Seder: If you have never experienced a Seder before and would like help getting started, we have designed a virtual seder experience that you can utilise on the evening. Visit www.passover.org.au/virtual-seder to access

Gifts for the child who wins the prize: – Money, chocolate or lollies etc. Later on in the evening, the children will go in search of a hidden piece of unleavened bread, and one will be declared a winner. This gift is for the winner.

STEP 3: Set the Table

Arrange the table with care, placing the following items:

Seder Plate: Place the symbolic foods – Matzah (unleavened bread), Maror (bitter herb), Charoset (sweet mixture), Karpas (green vegetable), Zeroa (roasted lamb shank), and Beitzah (hard-boiled egg)– on a decorative plate. – Don’t forget you will need to replicate these items (minus the lamb shank) for each guest on their plate.

Unleavened Bread Cover: Cover the stack of Matzah with a decorative cloth.

Wine Cups: Each guest should have a cup for the four cups of wine but ensure that there are also four cups near the main seder plate as a symbol of the four cups.

Guide Book: Provide a Haggadah (guidebook) for each guest.

Saltwater Bowl: Place a bowl of saltwater for dipping the Karpas for each guest.

Candles and Candlesticks: Set up candles and candlesticks for lighting the candles to begin the Seder.

STEP 4: Prepare the Meal

Plan and prepare a traditional Passover meal, including dishes such as Matzo Ball Soup, Gefilte Fish, Brisket or Chicken, and Tzimmes (a sweet carrot and fruit dish). Ensure all dishes adhere to Passover dietary laws, avoiding leavened bread and certain grains.

If you need inspiration on some unleavened recipes – visit www.passover.org.au/recipes 

STEP 5: Follow the Seder Order

Refer to the guidebook or virtual seder video to lead your guests through the Seder, following the prescribed order of rituals, prayers, and storytelling. By following this comprehensive guide, you’ll be well-prepared to host a meaningful and memorable Passover Seder. May your celebration be filled with joy, reflection, and the spirit of freedom as we do THIS in remembrance of HIM.

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